I painted my sons toenails

I painted my sons toenails, twice. He wanted them painted and so I did it with dark blue nail polish. He even stopped biting his toenails so I could do it. Why did I go along with his request is what you are probably thinking. Here is my take on why I felt it was ok....

1) He hangs out with me (his mother), older teenage sister and baby sister most of the time. We paint our toes. He liked how it looked and saw we were all doing it so he wanted it.

2) This is not going to turn him gay. Honestly I don't know how anyone can say that about a 4yr old child, they don't even now what that means yet. If he is gay then he is gay, my painting his toenails when he is 4 is not going to make him so.

3) I painted my two younger brothers nails when they were little and the world didn't end

The reason for this post? People need to stop being so judgmental about things as little as this. My son is a sweet little boy who saw his siblings doing something he wanted to do. I let him do. I will leave you with this thought though...why is a girl considered a "tomboy" and not gay when she does what is considered "boy things" but a boy that wants/likes "girl" things is?

How he proposed

Let me start off by saying that I had no idea he was going to propose that weekend. Here is the story:

We had made saturday night dinner reservations for a steakhouse called BOA and then were going to the Penn and Teller show after. I was looking forward to dressing up again as with three kids it does not happen alot. I wore a little black dress and he dressed up in his black suit. We decided to walk over since it wasn't far from our hotel.


We got to the restaurant, sat down and ordered our food. We both had steak and a glass of wine. After we finished our dinner and ordered dessert I finally decided to broach a subject that had been bothering me. I turned to him and told him that we needed to come up with a different name for what we were. That after 7 yrs boyfriend/girlfriend sounded silly and husband/wife didn't work because we are not married. I went on for awhile explaining my reasoning. I finally stopped to take a drink of my wine and when I turned back to him (we were sitting next to each other) he had the ring out and said "how does Fiance sound?" . After a moment of stunned silence I of course said yes.


It turns out he bought the ring the day before we left for Las Vegas and had been carrying it with him ever since. He was sure that my teen daughter had told me beforehand because I brought up the boyfriend/girlfriend thing (she didn't tell me).



Now this might not have been a fairytale proposal with flowers and one knee but it was uniquely ours.

Rawhides and My dogs

I now have two dogs. Our oldest dog is a golden retriever named Nala who is a little over 4yrs old and we now have a dachshund/Chihuahua mix named Coco who is 6 months old. We got Coco from my older brother who was having a hard time training her. I agreed to take her in because we love animals and since I am a stay at home mom I could give her the attention she needs during the training process. One of the problems that Coco has (and really all puppies do) is that she chews everything in sight. I am also big on all natural items for my children and my pets so when Pet-Ag sent me some all natural Beef hides from their Rawhide Brand to try I was very excited.



When they arrived I opened the package and immediately gave a little bone to Coco. She loved it! I would say that she spent about a good 10 minutes chewing on that little bone. My older dog Nala even took a beef hide and she is a really picky about which kind she will chew. I especially love that these Beef hides are Grass-fed beef hides and have no antibiotics, hormones or preservatives. They also didn't have a smell to them like other ones I have tried.

My dogs loved these beef hides so much they chewed through the package in a a little over two weeks. I have also not come home and found chewed up shoes or toys. They also took to hiding pieces from each other which I thought was cute.

.PetAg carries a great section of pet nutrition items for alot of different pets. So check them out for all your pet needs.




I received a pack of Beef-hides from PetAg to facilitate this review, the opinions expressed are my own honest opinions and were in no way influenced.

My father

My father passed away yesterday morning after a week and a half in the hospital. He went in because he was weak (could barely stand and couldn't swallow any food). After a couple of tests it turned out he had stage 4 colon cancer that had already spread to his lungs and other places. On top of this he had a hole in his bladder, a hole in his colon and his liver was shot. The hospital was great but we knew that there was no hope for him.


It is difficult as a child to see your once tall strong father go into being a weak stick person. It tore at my heart to hear him babble about his wallet and glasses because he was confused on where he was. I tried to visit him as much as I good but with 3 kids it was difficult to get out there everyday. I am glad that I have 5 siblings that were able to visit. My two youngest siblings T & K really stepped up and took great care of our father by going everyday.

My father passed away quietly with his mother and younger brother there with him. I am sad he is gone but happy he is away from the pain.

I love my father and will miss him everyday.

Hayneedle twitter party!

I love a good twitter party and Hayneedle throws some good ones. They are having one Thursday, May 05, 2011 from 7:00 PM - 8:30 PM (CT). The prize list for this part is a doozy, it includes a porch swing, a gas grill, dining set and more. Who wouldn't want to win that?

Participating in a twitter party can be a little intimidating at first,. My advice for your first few parties is to just follow what the host is saying and answer their questions (in this case @hayneedle) As you get more used to twitter then branch out to jump into the conversation of the other party goers.

For much info on this party and to RSVP go to
http://hayneedletwitterparty.eventbrite.com/

I hope to see you there!

Our trip to vegas and a surprise

I had won a weekend trip to Vegas on twitter at the end of the summer and we just took it in the beginning of March. It was for 4nights and 3 days at the Venetian with airfare for two. Since my boyfriend and I haven't been anywhere alone together in a long time we were really looking forward to this trip. We left on Thursday morning with no problems. Our plane was on time and the sky was clear. We made it to Vegas with no problems and immediately felt the gambling pull. There were slot machines in the terminal! lol We took a taxi to the Venetian and the ride was crazy. The traffic there is unbelievable!

Let me say that the Venetian is a gorgeous hotel. As soon as you walk in there is this statue (my boyfriend in front of it) and these murals on the ceiling

Our room was great also with a huge bathroom that had double sinks , a shower, sunken tub, and vanity table. I miss that bathroom.

Vegas itself was great. We did allot of walking along the strip. Saw The Amazing Jonathan and Penn&Teller for shows. I was able to go swimming because it was almost 80 there while my boyfriend went for a massage. It was very relaxing being able to get up and not have to run someone to school or worry about dinner. I loved visiting Vegas but would not want to live there.

Now for the surprise.....while at dinner one night while in Vegas my boyfriend proposed and I said yes :) I will save that story for another post

I am fabulous

I am fabulous! Now why I am a fabulous you ask? Because I am me and don't try to pretend to be something I am not.
I am also loyal but if you do something that hurts or potentially hurts my family you are out. Case in point: I have 5 siblings (we are all pretty close expect for the second oldest who is a loner) and we grew up next door to a family that had two children. A boy and a girl..the boy B is a yr older then me and the girl S is about the same age as my younger sister. One night B,I another friend M and younger brother T went out drinking. B got really drunk. We got him to our parents house (remember he loved next door) and brother t (joking around) said something that pissed B off. So B grabbed him by the throat and went to punch him. Now B is like 6 foot and big while my brother T is 5'9 and skinny. B would have punched him but I stepped in between while M went to get B's dad. B's dad took him home and that was the end of the altercation. M and T have forgiven him but I on the other hand can't. I will still do talk to him when I see him out but no longer hang out with him.
I love my family. I am glad all of my siblings are close with the exception of one. I would do anything for them and drop everything to help them. Which I have done.
There are other things that make me fabulous but that would be one long blog post to type out and read lol.